If you don’t learn constantly, you don’t grow and you will wither. Too many people wither on the vine. Sure, it gets a little harder as you get older, but new experiences and new challenges keep it fresh.
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I never had to look for confidence because I just wore what I wanted to wear. I would never wear anything to offend my husband or my mother, but outside of that, I always figured, I hope I'm not a rebel, and I hope everybody liked it. And if they didn't like it, it really was not going to disturb me because it was their problem, not mine.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Confidence comes from self-expression, not external validation.
Iris Apfel's quote emphasizes the importance of wearing what makes you happy and comfortable without being excessively concerned about others' opinions. It highlights the idea that true confidence is rooted in self-acceptance and personal style, rather than conforming to societal expectations or seeking approval from others.
Themes
ConfidenceSelf-ExpressionStyleIndividualitySelf-Acceptance
In practice
Example use cases
During a fashion show, I shared Iris Apfel's quote to inspire the audience to embrace their personal style.
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I'm not out to preach. I just live my own life. I'm very happy if I can help somebody - that's wonderful. But it's up to them what they want to think about it or what they want to take away; it's their business, not mine.
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The fashion industry has done itself in by neglecting the 60- to 80-year-old market. They have the time and the economic resources. They want to go shopping.
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