We start making every child ambitious, and ambition means you cannot love; ambition is anti-love. Ambition needs fight, ambition needs struggle, ambition needs you to use others as a means.
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Love can never possess. Love is giving freedom to the other. Love is an unconditional gift, it is not a bargain.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True love is about giving freedom, not possession or control.
This quote by Rajneesh emphasizes that love should not be about owning or controlling another person. Instead, it should be seen as a selfless act of giving, where both individuals are free to be themselves without any conditions or expectations. Love thrives when it is unconditional, allowing for mutual respect and personal growth.
Themes
LoveFreedomUnconditionalGiftTrust
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared in a relationship workshop to highlight the importance of freedom in love.
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