If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
I never had that feeling that I had to carry the weight of somebody's ignorance around with me. And that was true for racists who wanted to use the 'n' word when talking about me or about my people, or the stupidity of people who really wanted to belittle other folks because they weren't pretty or they weren't rich or they weren't clever.
Interpretation
The quote expresses the importance of not allowing ignorance and prejudice from others to weigh you down.
Maya Angelou emphasizes the strength of self-identity and resilience in the face of ignorance and prejudice. She conveys that one should not internalize the negative opinions or discriminatory attitudes of others, and instead cultivate a sense of dignity and confidence that transcends the ignorance of those who seek to label or belittle.
In practice
In a speech about overcoming adversity, one could quote Angelou to highlight the need for personal strength.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
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I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
I grew up in a culture in which it was a sin for a woman to speak out.
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Women are strong. We can do it all. But not always at the same time.
I was the son of an immigrant. I experienced bigotry, intolerance and prejudice, even as so many of you have. Instead of allowing these thing to embitter me, I took them as spurs to more strenuous effort. .
Literally falling on the ice and having to pick yourself up in front of thousands of people is not an easy thing to do. The thing that you learn is to pick yourself back up, to learn from your mistakes.
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