A writer's job is to imagine everything so personally that the fiction is as vivid as memories.
John IrvingRead
To each other, we were as normal and nice as the smell of bread. We were just a family. In a family even exaggerations make perfect sense.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the comfort and normalcy found in familial relationships, along with the understanding that exaggerations within a family are accepted.
John Irving's quote reflects the deep sense of belonging and familiarity that comes with being part of a family. It suggests that the mundane interactions and even the over-the-top expressions of love or frustration are part of what makes a family unique and close-knit. Families share a bond that allows for understanding and acceptance of each other's quirks, making every interaction feel natural and loving.
Themes
FamilyNormalcyRelationshipsLoveExaggeration
In practice
Example use cases
During a family reunion, you might say this quote to express the warmth you feel.
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