We have to realize that we are as deeply afraid to live and to love as we are to die.
R. D. LaingRead
What we call "normal" is a product of repression, denial, splitting, projection, introjection, and other forms of destructive actions on experience...It is radically estranged from the structure of being.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The concept of 'normal' is often shaped by unhealthy mental processes and does not reflect true existence.
This quote by R. D. Laing suggests that what society perceives as 'normal' behavior or state of mind is often constructed through various psychological mechanisms that distort and repress our true experiences. These actions lead to a disconnect from our authentic existence, indicating that the accepted norms may be fundamentally flawed or harmful.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a mental health awareness seminar, to highlight the intricacies of normality and psychological well-being.
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