There is nothing of which we are more ashamed than of not being ourselves. And there is nothing which brings us greater joy and happiness than to think, feel, and say what is ours.
Interpretation
Being true to oneself is essential for happiness and fulfillment.
This quote emphasizes the importance of authenticity in our lives. Erich Fromm suggests that the shame we feel when we fail to be ourselves is overshadowed by the joy that comes from expressing our true thoughts and feelings. By embracing our individuality, we can achieve a deeper sense of joy and satisfaction in life.
In practice
In a speech about personal growth, you could say, 'As Erich Fromm reminds us, there is nothing of which we are more ashamed than of not being ourselves.'
Love, experienced thus, is a constant challenge; it is not a resting place, but a moving, growing, working together; even whether there is harmony or conflict; joy or sadness, is secondary to the fundamental fact that two people experience themselves from the essence of their existence, that they are only one with each other by being one with themselves, rather than by fleeing from themselves.
Both dreams and myths are important communications from ourselves to ourselves. If we do not understand the language in which they are written, we miss a great deal of what we know and tell ourselves in those hours when we are not busy manipulating the outside world.
Infantile love follows the principle: "I love because I am loved." Mature love follows the principle: "I am loved because I love." Immature love says: "I love you because I need you." Mature love says: "I need you because I love you.
To have faith requires courage, the ability to take a risk, the readiness even to accept pain and disappointment. Whoever insists on safety and security as primary conditions of life cannot have faith; whoever shuts himself off in a system of defense, where distance and possession are his means of security, makes himself a prisoner. To be loved, and to love, need courage, the courage to judge certain values as of ultimate concern β and to take the jump and to stake everything on these values.
In times of change, learners inherit the earth
In the nineteenth century the problem was that God is dead. In the twentieth century the problem is that man is dead.
When you are ignorant about something, to know that you are ignorant about it - that is knowledge.
The belief that youth is the happiest time of life is founded on fallacy. The happiest person is the person who thinks the most interesting thoughts, and we grow happier as we grow older.
At my advanced age - I'm now an octogenarian - I'm constantly amazed by the number of people who want to take my picture.
The hard discipline, with the exception of one great good point, is fraught with evil. The good point is that men can do one or two things well with very little effort, having practiced them every day through generations.
We must beat the iron while it is hot, but we may polish it at leisure.
You can fool a lot of yourself but you can't fool the soul.
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