To live fully, outwardly and inwardly, not to ignore the external reality for the sake of the inner life, or the reverse, that's quite a task
Etty HillesumRead
Thinking gets you nowhere. It may be a fine and noble aid in academic studies, but you can't think your way out of emotional difficulties. That takes something altogether different. You have to make yourself passive then, and just listen. Re-establish contact with a slice of eternity.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the limitations of thinking in resolving emotional challenges, suggesting the need for a deeper, more passive engagement with one's feelings.
Etty Hillesum highlights the idea that while thinking can be valuable for intellectual pursuits, it often falls short in addressing emotional hardships. Instead of trying to reason through feelings, one should embrace a state of receptivity and connect with a deeper understanding of existence, which can lead to healing and clarity.
In practice
In a mental health seminar, to illustrate the importance of emotional awareness.
To live fully, outwardly and inwardly, not to ignore the external reality for the sake of the inner life, or the reverse, that's quite a task
The more peace there is in us, the more peace there will be in our troubled world.
We have to fight them daily, lake fleas, those many small worries about the morrow, for they sap our energies.
Each of us must turn inward and destroy in himself all that he thinks he ought to destroy in others.
I think what weakens people most is fear of wasting their strength.
I really see no other solution than to turn inwards and to root out all the rottenness there. I no longer believe that we can change anything in the world until we first change ourselves. And that seems to me the only lesson to be learned.
One of the most obvious facts about grownups to a child is that they have forgotten what it is like to be a child.
Genuine good taste consists in saying much in few words, in choosing among our thoughts, in having order and arrangement in what we say, and in speaking with composure.
Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.
Stunned and still not suffering. Swollen with care and anxiety and still not suffering. Useless, old and full of grief, but still not suffering.
You have to have a lot of ideas. First, if you want to make discoveries, it's a good thing to have good ideas. And second, you have to have a sort of sixth sense-the result of judgment and experience-which ideas are worth following up. I seem to have the first thing, a lot of ideas, and I also seem to have good judgment as to which are the bad ideas that I should just ignore, and the good ones, that I'd better follow up.
Whatever happens to you belongs to you. Make it yours. Feed it to yourself even if it feels impossible to swallow. Let it nurture you, because it will.
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