A library is a place where you can lose your innocence without losing your virginity.
Germaine GreerRead
It is often falsely assumed, even by feminists, that sexuality is the enemy of the female who really wants to develop these aspects of her personality, and this is perhaps the most misleading aspect of movements like the National Organization of Women. It was not the insistence upon her sex that weakened the American woman student's desire to make something of her education, but the insistence upon a passive sexual role
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote critiques the misconception that sexuality hinders women's personal development in feminist movements.
Germaine Greer argues that it is a common but misguided belief that embracing one's sexuality negatively impacts a woman's ambition and educational pursuits. Instead, she asserts that it is the expectation for women to adopt a submissive sexual role that diminishes their drive and capability to succeed in and out of the academic world.
Themes
SexualityFeminismEmpowermentEducationFeminine
In practice
Example use cases
In a women's studies class discussing the complexities of feminism.
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