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We are often indifferent to our brethren who are distressed or upset, on the grounds that they are in this state through no fault of ours. The Doctor of souls, however, wishing to root out the soul's excuses from the heart, tells us to leave our gift and to be reconciled not only if we happen to be upset by our brother, but also if he is upset by us, whether justly or unjustly; only when we have healed the breach through our apology should we offer our gift.
John Cassian
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What this quote means

The quote emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for our relationships and reconciling with others, regardless of who is at fault.

In this quote, John Cassian addresses the tendency of individuals to dismiss the emotional struggles of others, particularly when they believe those struggles are not their responsibility. He emphasizes the moral duty to acknowledge and mend relationships, even if the distress of another person seems unjustified. By advising us to prioritize reconciliation and personal accountability over our own grievances, Cassian highlights the virtue of empathy and communal harmony.

Themes

ForgivenessReconciliationEmpathyRelationshipsMoral Responsibility

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about fostering community support during difficult times.

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