Genuine good taste consists in saying much in few words, in choosing among our thoughts, in having order and arrangement in what we say, and in speaking with composure.
Francois FenelonRead
We can often do more for other men by trying to correct our own faults than by trying to correct theirs.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Focusing on improving ourselves is often more beneficial to others than attempting to change them.
This quote emphasizes the importance of self-improvement and personal accountability. Instead of directing our energy towards fixing others' mistakes or shortcomings, we should first look inward and address our own faults. By doing so, we not only better ourselves but also become more effective in our interactions and support of others, ultimately fostering genuine growth and understanding in our relationships.
Themes
Self-ImprovementPersonal GrowthAccountabilityRelationshipsWisdom
In practice
Example use cases
During a workshop on leadership, this quote can remind participants of the importance of self-awareness.
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The greatest of all crosses is self. If we die in part every day, we shall have but little to do on the last. These little daily deaths will destroy the power of the final dying.
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How rare it is to find a soul quiet enough to hear God speak.
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If we were faultless we should not be so much annoyed by the defects of those with whom we associate.
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If the crowns of all the kingdoms of the empire were laid down at my feet in exchange for my books and my love of reading I would spurn them all.
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