God how I hate new countries: They are older than the old, more sophisticated, much more conceited, only young in a certain puerile vanity more like senility than anything.
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Why, oh why must one grow up, why must one inherit this heavy, numbing responsibility of living an undiscovered life? Out of the nothingness and the undifferentiated mass, to make something of herself! But what? In the obscurity and pathlessness to take a direction! But whither? How take even one step? And yet, how stand still? This was torment indeed, to inherit the responsibility of one’s own life.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the burdens of adulthood and the struggle of finding one's path in life.
D. H. Lawrence grapples with the existential dilemma of growing up and the accompanying responsibilities that come with it. He expresses the torment of having to navigate a life filled with uncertainty and the pressure to carve out a meaningful existence from chaos, emphasizing the struggle inherent in making choices and finding direction amid obscurity.
Themes
Growing UpResponsibilityLifeExistenceSelf-Discovery
In practice
Example use cases
Using this quote during a graduation speech to highlight the challenges of adulthood.
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