If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
If one is lucky, a solitary fantasy can totally transform one million realities.
Interpretation
A single powerful idea can change countless lives.
Maya Angelou's quote speaks to the transformative power of imagination and dreams. It suggests that through the belief in oneβs own fantasy or vision, an individual can have a profound impact on the world, influencing many others and creating new possibilities from mere thoughts.
In practice
In a motivational speech to inspire creativity in a team.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
Life does not owe you anything, because life has already given you everything.
Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people.
Being true to yourself really means being true to all the complexities of the human spirit.
Sometimes God lets you hit rock bottom so that you will discover He is the Rock at the bottom.
Control what you can control. Don't lose sleep worrying about things that you don't have control over because, at the end of the day, you still won't have any control over them.
Usually, you can figure out where a person's mistakes came from if you ask them the genesis of their thought process: 'Why did you do it this way?' As opposed to telling them they did it the wrong way. Understanding their thought process will ultimately help you be able to communicate with them and navigate around them.
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