Everything is dangerous, my dear fellow. If it wasn't so, life wouldn't be worth living.
Oscar WildeRead
One of the many lessons that one learns in prison is, that things are what they are and will be what they will be.
Interpretation
Acceptance of reality is a profound lesson learned in difficult situations.
This quote by Oscar Wilde reflects on the understanding that, particularly in challenging environments like prison, one comes to realize that acceptance of one's circumstances is critical. It emphasizes the importance of recognizing that reality cannot always be changed, and that peace can be found in understanding and accepting the nature of things as they are, fostering a sense of resilience and clarity.
In practice
In a motivational speech about resilience, one might quote Wilde to emphasize acceptance.
Everything is dangerous, my dear fellow. If it wasn't so, life wouldn't be worth living.
London is too full of fogs and serious people. Whether the fogs produce the serious people, or whether the serious people produce the fogs, I don't know.
When one has never heard a man's name in the course of one's life, it speaks volumes for him; he must be quite respectable.
Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance.
A truth ceases to be true when more than one person believes in it.
His morality is all sympathy, just what morality should be
Move forward and let others do the same. Simple. This is a guiding principle everyone should have.
There was a point in my 40s when I went into the bathroom with a bottle of wine, locked the door, and said, 'I'm not coming out until I can totally accept the way that I look right now.'
Fear represents our need to hang on to the riverbank, to control outcomes, results, our lives; it swims upstream. Truth is about releasing that hold, letting go of results, and trusting the direction of Lifeβs current.
Looking back on things, the view always improves.
The demon of intemperance ever seems to have delighted in sucking the blood of genius and of generosity.
Of course I'm crazy, but that doesn't mean I'm wrong.
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