If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
No one can take the place of a friend, no one.
Interpretation
The unique value of friends cannot be replaced by anyone else.
This quote emphasizes the irreplaceable nature of friendship, highlighting how a true friend holds a significant and unique place in oneβs life. It suggests that the bond and connection formed with a friend is so special that no one else can fulfill that role or provide the same support and understanding.
In practice
During a graduation speech about the importance of friendships in life.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
Oh how sweet it is to hear one's own convictions from another's lips.
One's friends are that part of the human race with which one can be human.
One of the strange things about friendship is that time together isn't cancelled out by time apart. One doesn't erase the other or balance it on some invisible scale. You can spend a few hours with someone and they will change your life, or you can spend a lifetime with a person and remain unchanged.
When somebody shares, everybody wins.
I never had intimate friends, and the few who came close are in New York. By which I mean they're dead, because that's where I suppose condemned souls go in order not to endure the truth of their past lives.
He liked the works of his friends, which is beautiful as loyalty but can be disastrous as judgement.
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