I think art is a healing force, and if we give in to the joy that can be found in art, then we are able to sustain ourselves in spite of ourselves.
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one thing I don’t need is any more apologies i got sorry greetin me at my front door you can keep yrs i don’t know what to do wit em they don’t open doors or bring the sun back they don’t make me happy or get a mornin paper didn’t nobody stop usin my tears to wash cars cuz a sorry.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Apologies are often inadequate for healing emotional pain and do not change past experiences.
In this quote, Ntozake Shange expresses her disillusionment with apologies. She conveys that mere words of regret cannot fix the emotional wounds she has experienced; they do not change the past or bring genuine happiness. Instead, she indicates that the actions leading to her sadness remain, and apologies alone cannot rectify those actions or bring about healing.
Themes
ApologiesEmotional PainRelationshipsHealingRegret
In practice
Example use cases
This quote could be shared during a discussion about the importance of meaningful actions in relationships rather than just words.
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