Having a child, particularly your first child, is such a life-changing moment. Nothing can really prepare you for that.
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No one would feel embarrassed about seeking help for a child if they broke their arm - and we really should be equally ready to support a child coping with emotional difficulties.
Interpretation
Seeking help for emotional difficulties is as important as seeking help for physical injuries.
This quote emphasizes the importance of treating emotional challenges with the same seriousness as physical ailments. It advocates for a societal shift in perception, urging people to seek help for mental health issues without embarrassment, particularly when it comes to supporting children who may be struggling emotionally, just as they would for a physical injury like a broken arm.
In practice
In a speech about mental health awareness at a community event.
Having a child, particularly your first child, is such a life-changing moment. Nothing can really prepare you for that.
Imagine if everyone was able to help just one child who needs to be listened to, needs to be respected, and needs to be loved - we could make such a huge difference for an entire generation.
There are three kinds of yeses. There's commitment, confirmation, and counterfeit. People are most used to giving the counterfeit yes because they've been trapped by the confirmation yes so many times. So the way you master no is understanding what really happens when somebody says 'no.' When yes is commitment, no is protection.
Promise me this, that you'll stand by me forever. But if God forbid Fate should step in and force us into a goodbye. If you have children someday, when they point to the pictures please tell them my name. Tell them how the crowd went wild, tell them how I hope they shine.
My own approach has always been to push intense emotions down and attempt to deal with them later. When I was younger, I was terrified to express anger because it would often kick-start a horrible reaction in the men in my life.
I feel wicked sleeping in a warm bed, while my dearest friends have been knocked down or have fallen into a gutter somewhere out in the cold night. I get frightened when I think of close friends who have now been delivered into the hands of the cruelest brutes that walk the earth. And all because they are Jews!
My people are still poor. They're still working class. All of the characters that I write about are inspired by the community that I'm from.
Intimate, loving, and enduring relationships with our family and close friends will be among the sources of the deepest joy in our lives.
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