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In order not to suffer, you had to renounce love. It was like putting out your own eyes in order not to see the bad things in life.
Paulo Coelho
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Avoiding love to escape pain only leads to greater loss.

This quote suggests that one must confront the pains that come with love rather than renounce it entirely. Coelho compares renouncing love to blinding oneself, implying that true living involves embracing both joy and sorrow rather than shutting oneself off from emotional experiences that are inherently part of life.

Themes

LoveSufferingPainLifeEmotion

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about the importance of vulnerability in relationships.

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