And though the years before I die _x000D_ Stretch out interminably, I _x000D_ Shall only count my life in truth _x000D_ As that brief hour of happy youth.
When you compare yourself with others in matters of wealth, position, and health, you should look at people less favoured than yourself. When you compare yourself with others in matters of religion, knowledge and virtue, look at people who are better than yourself.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote highlights the importance of perspective in self-comparison, urging individuals to reflect on both their advantages and areas for improvement.
Ibn Hazm's quote encourages us to adopt a balanced perspective when comparing ourselves to others. It suggests that in terms of external attributes like wealth, health, and social status, one should appreciate the blessings they have by looking at those who may be less fortunate. Conversely, when assessing personal development in areas like religion, knowledge, and virtue, one ought to seek inspiration from those who excel, thereby motivating oneself to grow and improve.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech, one might use this quote to encourage listeners to focus on personal growth rather than envy.
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