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When we come to judge others it is not by ourselves as we really are that we judge them, but by an image that we have formed of ourselves from which we have left out everything that offends our vanity or would discredit us in the eyes of the world.
Interpretation
What this quote means
We often judge others based on an idealized image of ourselves rather than our true nature.
This quote by W. Somerset Maugham suggests that when we evaluate others, our judgments are shaped not by their true selves but by a distorted image of our own identity, selectively omitting aspects that we find unflattering. The observation emphasizes a common human tendency to maintain a facade for social acceptance, leading to a biased perspective when viewing the actions and qualities of others.
Themes
JudgmentVanitySelf-ImagePhilosophyBias
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about self-perception and biases, this quote can illustrate how our self-esteem impacts our views of others.
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