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I know that pain is the most important thing in the universes. Greater than survival, greater than love, greater even than the beauty it brings about. For without pain, there can be no pleasure. Without sadness, there can be no happiness. Without misery there can be no beauty. And without these, life is endless, hopeless, doomed and damned. Adult. You have become adult.
Harlan Ellison
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What this quote means

The quote emphasizes the essential role of pain and suffering in experiencing joy and beauty in life.

Harlan Ellison suggests that pain is a fundamental aspect of existence, positing that without experiencing pain, one cannot genuinely appreciate pleasure, happiness, or beauty. He argues that these elements are interdependent; they coexist to give life depth and meaning, and without the challenges and struggles, life becomes stale and devoid of hope.

Themes

PainPleasureHappinessLifeBeautySuffering

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Example use cases

During a motivational speech about resilience, this quote can emphasize the importance of pain in personal growth.

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