Pain is a relatively objective, physical phenomenon; suffering is our psychological resistance to what happens. Events may create physical pain, but they do not in themselves create suffering. Resistance creates suffering. Stress happens when your mind resists what is... The only problem in your life is your mind's resistance to life as it unfolds.
Interpretation
Pain is a physical experience, while suffering is the mental resistance to that pain and the events of life.
This quote by Dan Millman highlights the distinction between pain and suffering, suggesting that while physical pain is an inevitable part of life, suffering is a mental state that arises from our resistance to circumstances. By implying that our mind's resistance leads to unnecessary stress and unhappiness, it encourages acceptance of life's events as they come, rather than fighting against them.
In practice
In a motivational speech about coping with hardship, emphasizing the importance of mental resilience.
Wake up! If you knew for certain you had a terminal illness--if you had little time left to live--you would waste precious little of it! Well, I'm telling you...you do have a terminal illness: It's called birth. You don't have more than a few years left. No one does! So be happy now, without reason--or you will never be at all.
You haven't yet opened your heart fully, to life, to each moment. The peaceful warrior's way is not about invulnerability, but absolute vulnerability--to the world, to life, and to the Presence you felt. All along I've shown you by example that a warrior's life is not about imagined perfection or victory; it is about love. Love is a warrior's sword; wherever it cuts, it gives life, not death.
Enlightenment is not an attainment; it is a realization. And when you wake up, everything changes and nothing changes. If a blind man realizes that he can see, has the world changed?
Masters of one art have mastered all because they have mastered themselves. With dominion over both mind and muscle, they demonstrate power, serenity, and spirit. They not only have talent for their sport, they have an expanded capacity for life. The experts shine in the competitive arena; the masters shine everywhere.
Everything you need to know is within you. Listen. Feel. Trust the body's wisdom.
In the real world, those of us who are most productive, successful, and satisfied focus not on fixing feelings or manipulating thoughts, but on what needs to be done-and then doing it-no matter what thoughts or feelings arise.
All progress is based upon a universal innate desire on the part of every organism to live beyond its income.
Keep thy hook always baited, for a fish lurks even in the most unlikely swim.
In a man's middle years there is scarcely a part of the body he would hesitate to turn over to the proper authorities.
Summer, and he watches his children's heart break. Autumn again and Boo's children needed him. Atticus was right. One time he said you never really know a man until you stand in his shoes and walk around in them. Just standing on the Radley porch was enough.
And the quality of good judgement is clearly a form of knowledge and skill, as it is because of knowledge and not because of ignorance that we judge well.
Rather than continuing to seek the truth, simply let go of your views.
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