Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
When writing goes painfully, when it’s hideously difficult, and one feels real despair (ah, the despair, silly as it is, is real!)–then naturally one ought to continue with the work; it would be cowardly to retreat. But when writing goes smoothly–why then one certainly should keep on working, since it would be stupid to stop. Consequently one is always writing or should be writing.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Writing requires perseverance through challenges and a commitment to continue even during difficult times.
In this quote, Joyce Carol Oates emphasizes the importance of persistence in the writing process. She acknowledges that writing can be incredibly challenging and even despairing at times, yet it is essential to push through those difficulties rather than retreating. Conversely, when the creative flow is positive and effortless, it is equally important to continue harnessing that momentum. Ultimately, Oates suggests that a writer should always be engaged in their craft, regardless of the circumstances, highlighting the necessity of dedication to writing.
Themes
In practice
Example use cases
This quote could be used during a writing workshop to inspire participants to keep writing despite challenges.
More from Joyce Carol Oates
All quotes →I never really knew I wanted to 'be' a writer, but I was always writing from a very young age. It became more conscious as an ideal when I was in my twenties.
I'm drawn to write about upstate New York in the way in which a dreamer might have recurring dreams. My childhood and girlhood were spent in upstate New York, in the country north of Buffalo and West of Rochester. So this part of New York state is very familiar to me and, with its economic difficulties, has become emblematic of much of American life.
My writing is often a way of 'bearing witness' for others who lack the education and the opportunity to tell their own stories, so I hope that my writing won't be affected too much by my personal life.
The worst cynicism: a belief in luck.
. . . there is a wish in the heart of mankind to be distracted and confused. Truth is but one attraction, and not always the most powerful.
Similar quotes
A mistake is only an error, it becomes a mistake when you fail to correct it
The thought process can never be complete without articulation.
Doubt is a pain too lonely to know that faith is his twin brother.
The squirrel that you kill in jest, dies in earnest.
There is, so I believe, in the essence of everything, something that we cannot call learning. There is, my friend, only a knowledge-that is everywhere, that is Atman, that is in me and you and in every creature, and I am beginning to believe that this knowledge has no worse enemy than the man of knowledge, than learning.
may my heart always be open to little birds who are the secrets of living whatever they sing is better than to know and if men should not hear them men are old may my mind stroll about hungry and fearless and thirsty and supple and even if it's sunday may i be wrong for whenever men are right they are not young and may myself do nothing usefully and love yourself so more than truly there's never been quite such a fool who could fail pulling all the sky over him with one smile