You know what they say: A woman needs a man about as much as a fish needs a bicycle.
Candace BushnellRead
My parents had a great marriage. Interestingly, it made it harder for me in relationships because I knew what a good relationship looked like.
Interpretation
Having role models for a good relationship can create high expectations for personal relationships.
In this quote, Candace Bushnell reflects on how witnessing her parents' successful marriage set a standard for her own relationships. While their strong partnership served as a benchmark for her, it also made it challenging to find similar depth and connection in her own romantic endeavors, highlighting how exemplary models can shape our expectations and experiences in love.
In practice
This quote would be fitting in a discussion about the influence of family dynamics on personal relationships.
You know what they say: A woman needs a man about as much as a fish needs a bicycle.
If a woman could take care of herself, would she still need a man? Would she even want one? And if she didn't want a man, what kind of woman would she be? Would she even be a woman? Because it seemed if you were a woman, the only thing you were really supposed to want was a man.
If I'm with a man, is that going to prevent me from achieving my goal? What sacrifices will I have to make in terms of being myself, if I'm with a man? Something that young women find out really quickly is that when you start dating, all of a sudden you're supposed to have a role. You're not allowed to just be yourself.
Whoever we are here, we might be princesses somewhere else. Or writers. Or scientists. Or presidents. Or whatever the hell we want to be that everyone else says we can't.
If you want to know where I come by the passionate commitment I have to bringing people together without regard to race, it all started with my grandfather.
After all these years, I could say thank you to a woman who had a powerful impact on my early life.
I don't think homosexuality is a choice. Society forces you to think it's a choice, but in fact, it's in one's nature. The choice is whether one expresses one's nature truthfully or spends the rest of one's life lying about it.
I don't want to have a relationship with someone if I'm not going to work with them.
The more I know people, the more I love my dog.
If your Bible tells you that gay people ought not be married in your church, don't tell them they can't be married at city hall. Marriage is a civil rite as well a civil right, and we can't let religious bigotry close the door to justice to anyone.
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