These things, she felt, were not to be passed around like disingenuous party favors. She kept an honor code with her journals and her poems. 'Inside, inside,' she would whisper quietly to herself when she felt the urge to tell.
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But she was waiting patiently. She no longer believed in talk. It never rescued anything. At seventy she had come to believe in time alone. ~pg 254
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of patience and the belief that time is the ultimate agent of change.
In this quote, Alice Sebold reflects on the wisdom that comes with age, recognizing that waiting and the passage of time can oftentimes lead to resolution and understanding, rather than mere words or promises. The character's disillusionment with talk signifies a deeper understanding that actions over time are what truly matter in life.
Themes
PatienceTimeWisdomChangeBelief
In practice
Example use cases
During a speech about aging and wisdom, you can reference this quote to illustrate the value of patience.
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