I think we should stop asking people in their 20s what they 'want to do' and start asking them what they don't want to do. Instead of asking students to 'declare their major' we should ask students to 'list what they will do anything to avoid.' It just makes a lot more sense.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes focusing on what individuals want to avoid rather than what they aspire to do.
Amy Poehler suggests a shift in how we guide young people in their educational and career choices. Instead of pressuring them to declare a specific path or ambition in their 20s, it may be more beneficial to understand what they find unappealing. This approach can provide clearer insight into their values and preferences, ultimately helping them find a more suitable direction in life.
In practice
In a classroom discussion about career choices, a teacher could reference this quote to shift the focus from ambition to personal values.
Be easy on yourself. Have fun. Only hang around people that are positive and make you feel good. Anybody who doesn't make you feel good, kick them to the curb. And the earlier you start in your life the better. The minute anybody makes you feel weird and non-included or not supported, you know, either beat it or tell them to beat it.
Anybody who doesn't make you feel good, kick them to the curb. And the earlier you start in your life, the better.
Open-faced sandwiches take risks and live big and smile with all their teeth. These are the people I want to be around.
You become more attractive when you love yourself. You ATTRACT the right things when you have a sense of who you are.
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It’s very hard to have ideas. It’s very hard to put yourself out there, it’s very hard to be vulnerable, but those people who do that are the dreamers, the thinkers and the creators. They are the magic people of the world.
Most of the people who will walk after me will be children, so make the beat keep time with short steps.
Access to quality education has enabled me to reach far beyond the Bangladeshi village I grew up in.
My books hold between their covers every story I've ever known and still remember, or have now forgotten, or may one day read; they fill the space around me with ancient and new voices.
My law school class in the late 1950s numbered over 500. That class included less than 10 women.
The key to learning is feedback. It is nearly impossible to learn anything without it.
When you have all these new police officers and resource officers coming into schools, what I'm worried is going to happen is we're going to increase the school-to-prison pipeline, which disproportionately affects students of color and lower social status.
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