I believe in the compelling power of love. I do not understand it. I believe it to be the most fragrant blossom of all this thorny existence.
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People in general attach too much importance to words. They are under the illusion that talking effects great results. As a matter of fact, words are, as a rule, the shallowest portion of all the argument. They but dimly represent the great surging feelings and desires which lie behind. When the distraction of the tongue is removed, the heart listens.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Words often overshadow true feelings and intentions behind them.
The quote emphasizes that people tend to overvalue words, believing that speaking can create significant change. However, words often fail to capture the depth of genuine feelings and desires, suggesting that true communication comes from understanding and listening to the heart beyond mere verbal expressions.
Themes
CommunicationFeelingsWordsUnderstandingListening
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about emotional intelligence, one could use this quote to illustrate the importance of empathy over mere words.
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