Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,'I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I'm signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It's going to be hard but I want to get there.
When people say, "I know God forgives me, but I can't forgive myself," they mean that they have failed an idol, whose approval is more important than God's.
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What this quote means
Many struggle with self-forgiveness due to prioritizing others' approval over divine forgiveness.
This quote by Timothy Keller emphasizes the internal conflict many individuals face regarding self-forgiveness. It highlights the concept that while God may extend forgiveness, individuals often find it difficult to reconcile their self-worth and the expectations of others, leading them to prioritize the approval of an 'idol'—which could represent societal standards, personal ideals, or significant relationships—over divine grace.
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Example use cases
In a sermon discussing the importance of forgiveness, one might cite this quote to illustrate the struggle between divine forgiveness and personal rejection.
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