No one's ever dared come out and say it before, but there's not a man among us that doesn't think it, that doesn't feel just as you do about her and the whole business - feel it somewhere down deep in his scared little soul.
Ken KeseyRead
People think love is an emotion. Love is good sense.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Love is often perceived as just a feeling, but it also involves rational thinking.
In this quote, Ken Kesey suggests that love transcends mere emotions; it encompasses wise decision-making and good judgment. Rather than being a fleeting feeling, love requires understanding and thoughtful action, indicating that a healthy love is grounded in reason and mutual respect.
Themes
LoveEmotionWisdomJudgmentUnderstanding
In practice
Example use cases
During a wedding speech, to highlight the importance of making wise choices in love.
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