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Do you know what people really want? Everyone, I mean. Everybody in the world is thinking: I wish there was just one other person I could really talk to, who could really understand me, who'd be kind to me. That's what people really want, if they're telling the truth.
Doris Lessing
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Interpretation

What this quote means

People deeply desire genuine connection and understanding from others.

Doris Lessing's quote highlights a fundamental human need for authentic relationships. She suggests that at the core of everyone's longing is the hope for a companion who not only listens but truly comprehends and empathizes with their experiences, reflecting a universal quest for kindness and connection.

Themes

ConnectionUnderstandingKindnessRelationshipsCommunication

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about mental health, I would use this quote to emphasize the importance of connections in overcoming loneliness.

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