They are all alike you know. They hold their tongues for years and you think you're safe, but when the opportunity comes they remember everything.
Edith WhartonRead
When people ask for time, it's always for time to say no. Yes has one more letter in it, but it doesn't take half as long to say.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote highlights how people often request time to avoid making commitments, especially when declining an invitation or request.
Edith Wharton's quote effectively captures the difficulty of saying 'no' compared to saying 'yes.' The act of needing time often serves as a buffer for people to think about their response, specifically to decline without feeling pressured. It emphasizes the hesitation many feel in making commitments and the ease of acceptance over rejection.
Themes
DecisionCommitmentSay NoTimeRelationships
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about personal boundaries, this quote can be used to emphasize the importance of prioritizing one's time.
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