The people who help us grow toward true self offer unconditional love, neither judging us to be deficient nor trying to force us to change but accepting us exactly as we are. And yet this unconditional love does not lead us to rest on our laurels. Instead, it surrounds us with a charged force field that makes us want to grow from the inside out - a force field that is safe enough to take the risks and endure the failures that growth requires.
Interpretation
Unconditional love fosters personal growth without judgment or pressure.
This quote emphasizes the importance of unconditional love in personal development. It suggests that true support comes from people who accept us as we are, allowing us to feel safe in taking risks and learning from our failures, thus facilitating genuine growth from within.
In practice
This quote can be shared at a workshop about personal development and self-acceptance.
The academic bias against subjectivity not only forces our students to write poorly ("It is believed...," instead of, "I believe..."), it deforms their thinking about themselves and their world. In a single stroke, we delude our students into believing that bad prose turns opinions into facts and we alienate them from their own inner lives.
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True love always makes a man better, no matter who the woman is that inspires it.
If one loves, one need not have an ideology of love.
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We turned onto the last landing. Going out with this guy, I thought, would involve a lot of silly laughter, some wit--the buzz of his whispered wisecracks in my ear. But there would be as well his willingness to reveal, or more his inability to conceal, that he had been silently rehearsing my name as he climbed the stairs behind me. There would be his willingness to bestow upon me the power to reassure him. He would trust me with his happiness.
People often ask me why don't you have a girlfriend. Then I smile and say: I have thousands some just haven't met me yet
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