The generality of virtuous women are like hidden treasures, they are safe only because nobody has sought after them.
Most people know no other way of judging men's worth but by the vogue they are in, or the fortunes they have met with.
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What this quote means
People often evaluate others based on their popularity and success instead of their true character or abilities.
This quote suggests that society tends to value individuals based on their external achievements and social status rather than their intrinsic qualities. It critiques the superficiality of social judgment, highlighting how people's worth is often misconstrued by the prevailing trends and fortunes, rather than a deeper understanding of their character or contributions. Rochefoucauld invites us to reconsider how we assess the value of others and to look beyond mere appearances.
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Example use cases
In a lecture on social values, one might quote this to encourage deeper understanding of personal worth.
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