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Perfect behavior is born of complete indifference. Perhaps this is why we always love madly someone who treats us with indifference.
Cesare Pavese
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Indifference can ignite deep feelings of love and attraction in us.

Cesare Pavese's quote suggests that when someone exhibits indifference, it can lead to a heightened emotional response from us, as we often find ourselves drawn to those who seem unattainable or disinterested. This paradox of attraction highlights how our emotional connections can be influenced by the perceived lack of interest, prompting us to desire the very people who may not reciprocate our affections.

Themes

IndifferenceLoveAttractionEmotionParadox

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about unrequited love, one might quote Pavese to illustrate how indifference can evoke strong feelings.

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