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To give a person an opinion one must first judge well whether that person is of the disposition to receive it or not.
Yamamoto Tsunetomo
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Interpretation

What this quote means

One should consider whether someone is ready to hear advice before offering it.

This quote emphasizes the importance of discretion and empathy in communication, particularly when it comes to giving advice. It suggests that understanding a person's state of mind and openness to feedback is crucial before sharing one's perspective, highlighting that not everyone is in a place to receive opinions or guidance, no matter how well-intentioned it may be.

Themes

AdviceCommunicationPerceptionWisdomUnderstanding

In practice

Example use cases

During a team meeting, before sharing your feedback on a coworker's project, consider if they are in a receptive mood.

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