A pier is a disappointed bridge; yet stare at it for long enough and you can dream it to the other side of the Channel.
Interpretation
A pier symbolizes unrealized potential, yet with imagination, it can lead to new possibilities.
Julian Barnes uses the metaphor of a pier versus a bridge to illustrate the concept of unrealized dreams and aspirations. While a pier stands as a reminder of what could have been, it invites reflection and imagination, suggesting that with enough creativity and hope, one can envision the bridge it could symbolize, connecting to new opportunities and horizons beyond the immediate reality.
In practice
This quote can be used in a speech about overcoming obstacles and turning disappointments into opportunities.
(on grief) And you do come out of it, that’s true. After a year, after five. But you don’t come out of it like a train coming out of a tunnel, bursting through the downs into sunshine and that swift, rattling descent to the Channel; you come out of it as a gull comes out of an oil-slick. You are tarred and feathered for life.
Is despair wrong? Isn’t it the natural condition of life after a certain age? … After a number of events, what is there left but repetition and diminishment? Who wants to go on living? The eccentric, the religious, the artistic (sometimes); those with a false sense of their own worth. Soft cheeses collapse; firm cheeses endurate. Both go mouldy.
It took me some years to clear my head of what Paris wanted me to admire about it, and to notice what I preferred instead. Not power-ridden monuments, but individual buildings which tell a quieter story: the artist's studio, or the Belle Epoque house built by a forgotten financier for a just-remembered courtesan.
But I’ve been turning over in my mind the question of nostalgia, and whether I suffer from it. I certainly don’t get soggy at the memory of some childhood knickknack; nor do I want to deceive myself sentimentally about something that wasn’t even true at the time—love of the old school, and so on. But if nostalgia means the powerful recollection of strong emotions—and a regret that such feelings are no longer present in our lives—then I plead guilty.
And that's a life, isn't it? Some achievements and some disappointments. It's been interesting to me, though I wouldn't complain or be amazed if others found it less so. Maybe, in a way, Adrian knew what he was doing. Not that I would have missed my own life for anything, you understand. [pp.60-61]
Every love story is a potential grief story.
Children play soldier. That makes sense. But why do soldiers play children?
We're all under the same sky and walk the same earth; we're alive together during the same moment.
We want to know not how we should pray if we were perfect but how we should pray being as we now are ... It is no use to ask God with factitious earnestness for A when our whole mind is in reality filled with the desire for B. We must lay before Him what is in us, not what ought to be in us.
I found earthquakes, even when I was in them, deeply satisfying, abruptly revealed evidence of the scheme in action. That the schemes could destroy the works of man might be a personal regret but remained, in the larger picture I had come to recognize, a matter of abiding indifference. No eye was on the sparrow. No eye was watching me.
Our Constitution does not profess to have been established simply by the majority, but by 'the people' - the minority as much as the majority.
We must reserve a back shop all our own entirely free, in which to establish our real liberty and our principal retreat and solitude.
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