The idea of songwriting is a transformative thing, and what I do with songwriting is take situations that are quite ordinary and transform them in some way. Apart from things like the murder ballads, the songs I write, at their core, are quite ordinary human concerns, but the process of writing about them transforms them into something else.
It was about the preciousness of that, and how they viewed those birds as art, as something valuable. I didn't care one way or another back then, but now, thinking about my grandparents - who are still alive but getting older - I see the birds as sort of time capsules. Now I go home during the holidays and they hold a lot of weight in terms of nostalgia and memory. Now they mean everything.
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What this quote means
The quote reflects on the value of memories and connections with family, highlighting how perceptions change over time.
In this quote, Nick Cave expresses a deep appreciation for the memories associated with specific aspects of his upbringing, particularly the birds that were viewed as art by his grandparents. Initially indifferent to their significance, he now recognizes them as important symbols of nostalgia and the passage of time, especially as he contemplates his grandparents' lives. This shift in perspective underscores the preciousness of memories and the bonds of family that deepen as one grows older.
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This quote can be shared during a family gathering to inspire reflection on cherished memories.
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