The transgender community has always been a part of Hawaiian society, where people who don't conform to the binary system of man/woman, masculine/feminine are accepted or, at minimum, tolerated.
Janet MockRead
'Pretty' is most often synonymous with being thin, white, able-bodied, and cis, and the closer you are to those ideals, the more often you will be labeled pretty - and benefit from that prettiness.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote critiques societal standards of beauty that privilege certain physical attributes over others.
Janet Mock's quote highlights the restrictive and often harmful beauty standards that define 'pretty' based on race, body type, ability, and gender identity. It emphasizes how those who conform to these narrow ideals enjoy societal benefits, suggesting a need for broader, more inclusive definitions of beauty that embrace diversity and reject discrimination.
Themes
BeautyStandardsDiversitySocietyIdentity
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about societal beauty norms during a panel on body positivity.
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Self-definition and self-determination is about the many varied decisions that we make to compose and journey toward ourselves, about the audacity and strength to proclaim, create, and evolve into who we know ourselves to be. It’s okay if your personal definition is in a constant state of flux as you navigate the world.
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