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The problem with gender is that it prescribes how we should be, rather than recognising how we are.
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
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What this quote means

Gender norms dictate behavior rather than acknowledge individual differences.

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie's quote highlights the restrictive nature of gender norms, which often impose societal expectations on individuals. Instead of understanding and accepting the complexities of human identity and behavior, these norms create a framework that limits personal expression and defines how people should act based on their gender, thereby overlooking the rich diversity of human experiences.

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Example use cases

This quote can be used in a seminar discussing gender stereotypes and their impact on society.

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