I can never drive my car over a bridge without thinking of suicide. I can never look at a lake or an ocean without thinking of suicide.
The problem was you had to keep choosing between one evil or another, and no matter what you chose, they sliced a little more off you, until there was nothing left. At the age of 25 most people were finished. A whole goddamned nation of assholes driving automobiles, eating, having babies, doing everything in the worst way possible, like voting for the presidential candidate who reminded them most of themselves.
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What this quote means
This quote reflects the struggle of making choices in a flawed society, illustrating the human condition of feeling diminished by negative experiences.
Charles Bukowski's quote delves into the existential dilemmas faced by individuals in a society where every choice seems to lead to degradation or loss. It captures a sense of disillusionment with the world, where people are forced to choose between flawed options, ultimately leading to a sense of emptiness and frustration. The mention of a 'nation of assholes' emphasizes a collective societal failure, suggesting that common behaviors and decisions contribute to this pervasive malaise, leaving individuals feeling as though they have been ground down to nothing by their circumstances.
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Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about societal pressures and the impact of conformity on personal choices.
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