The blindness that opens the eye is not the one that darkens vision. Tears and not sight are the essence of the eye.
Jacques DerridaRead
Psychoanalysis has taught that the dead – a dead parent, for example – can be more alive for us, more powerful, more scary, than the living. It is the question of ghosts.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The past, particularly the memories and influence of deceased loved ones, can have a more significant impact on our lives than the presence of the living.
In this quote, Jacques Derrida explores the idea that our memories and emotional ties to those who have passed away can be more influential and impactful than those who are still alive. This reflection raises questions about how we perceive the presence of the dead in our lives, suggesting that they can haunt our thoughts, shape our emotions, and evoke stronger feelings than even our current relationships, highlighting the complexity of grief and memory.
Themes
MemoryGriefInfluencePastLossRelationshipsGhostsPsychology
In practice
Example use cases
During a speech at a memorial service, one might refer to this quote to discuss the lingering impact of a loved one's memory.
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