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Teach them the quiet words of kindness, to live beyond themselves. Urge them toward excellence, drive them toward gentleness, pull them deep into yourself, pull them upward toward manhood, but softly like an angel arranging clouds. Let your spirit move through them softly.
Pat Conroy
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What this quote means

The quote emphasizes the importance of teaching kindness and excellence gently, guiding individuals towards their better selves.

In this quote, Pat Conroy reflects on the profound impact of nurturing kindness and excellence in others, suggesting that such qualities can lead individuals to grow beyond their immediate concerns. The ethereal imagery of an angel arranging clouds underscores the delicate and gentle approach needed in guiding people, especially young men, toward maturity and gentleness, highlighting the importance of quiet influence rather than forceful instruction.

Themes

KindnessExcellenceGentlenessEducationGrowth

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In a speech at a graduation ceremony to inspire graduates.

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