If you’re 35 and single and it’s a choice, it feels fine. So I didn’t settle with the wrong person yet. Big deal!
Drew BarrymoreRead
I really have created a family. I work with the people I love, I travel with them, I make films with them, and I'm in an office with them. So in a weird way - I know I haven't birthed a child - I feel that I'm a part of creating a family. It's a tribe. I love that word.
Interpretation
The quote expresses the idea of creating a family through strong personal and professional relationships.
Drew Barrymore reflects on the deep connections she has formed with her colleagues, emphasizing that family isn’t solely defined by blood relations but can also be forged through shared experiences and love. She describes her work environment as a tribe, highlighting the importance of camaraderie and emotional bonds in her life, which gives her a sense of belonging and fulfillment.
In practice
In a speech at a film festival, I shared Drew Barrymore's words about creating a family through work.
If you’re 35 and single and it’s a choice, it feels fine. So I didn’t settle with the wrong person yet. Big deal!
The low points I had all helped make up my character, so I probably wouldn't want to do away with them because I like being flawed and I like having them help me grow and change and become better and stronger.
My therapist says I still haven't got in touch with my anger. Maybe one day I'm going to explode. But I'm still really happy. I know it looks like a strange and painful upbringing - all those experiences led me to the paths that I'm on now.
I love being single. It's great. I get to be who I am and do what I want and be with the people I love. I feel like I have everything and I'm very fortunate, and it's very rich fulfilling time in my life.
You're not supposed to look perfect while you're making babies. Making babies is the perfection. It's about feeling good in clothes and knowing you can get dressed up in the evening, work it for a minute, and maybe get back in a certain pair of jeans. But there's just no such thing as perfection.
That thing, that moment, when you kiss someone and everything around becomes hazy and the only thing in focus is you and this person and you realize that that person is the only person that youre supposed to kiss for the rest of your life, and for one moment you get this amazing gift and you want to laugh and you want to cry because you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared that that it will go away all at the same time.
I decided in my life that I would do nothing that did not reflect positively on my father's life.
How many a father have I seen, A sober man, among his boys, Whose youth was full of foolish noise.
A sister they had, Galadriel, most beautiful of all the house of Finwë; her hair was lit with gold as though it had caught in a mesh the radiance of Laurelin.
When you have a baby, you set off an explosion in your marriage, and when the dust settles, your marriage is different from what it was. Not better, necessarily; not worse, necessarily; but different.
I believe in imagination. I did Kramer vs Kramer before I had children. But the mother I would be was already inside me.
A house is built of logs and stone, of tiles and posts and piers; a home is built of loving deeds that stand a thousand years.
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