It’s really hard to hate someone for being different when you’re too busy laughing together.
Interpretation
Laughter shared between people can bridge differences and promote acceptance.
This quote by George Takei highlights the power of laughter as a unifying force in relationships. When individuals engage in joyful experiences together, such as laughter, it becomes difficult to harbor negative feelings like hate, even towards those who may be different from us. It suggests that shared happiness can dissolve prejudices and foster understanding among diverse individuals.
In practice
This quote is perfect for discussions about diversity in a team-building workshop.
I remembered some people who lived across the street from our home as we were being taken away. When I was a teenager, I had many after-dinner conversations with my father about our internment. He told me that after we were taken away, they came to our house and took everything. We were literally stripped clean.
I'd like to think that, when I explain it, that Mr. Trump will understand marriage is defined by two people who love each other, commit to each other, and will care for each other through thick and thin.
Back in the day, coming out was something very personal. You began by acknowledging the truth, first to yourself, then to close family and friends. Those of us more in the public spotlight, though, also had to 'come out' to the press.
My father told me about American democracy. And he said you have to be actively engaged in the political process to make our democracy work. So I've been doing that my entire life. Civil rights movement. The peace movement during the Vietnam conflict. The movement to get an apology and redress for Japanese-Americans.
I'm especially concerned about the future of this country, because I'm concerned about the gay people of the future. We need to ensure their good life by registering to vote.
In many ways, my decision to come out changed the course not only of my personal life but of my professional one as well.
Strange how people who suffer together have stronger connections than those who are most content.
I had been alone more than I could have been had I gone by myself.
I know that sometimes people fake on each other out of genuine motives to hold onto the object of their tenderest feelings. They see themselves as so inadequate that they feel forced to wear a mask in order to continuously impress the other. I do not want to "hold" you, I want you to "stay" out of your own need for me.
Dissimilarity of habit tends more than anything to destroy affection.
While the primary function of formal Buddhist meditation is to create the possibility of the experience of "being," my work as a therapist has shown me that the demands of intimate life can be just as useful as meditation in moving people toward this capacity. Just as in formal meditation, intimate relationships teach us that the more we relate to each other as objects, the greater our disappointment. The trick, as in meditation, is to use this disappointment to change the way we relate.
Community is the fruit of our capacity to make the interests of others more important than our own.
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