If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
Remember, people will judge you by your actions not your intentions. You may have a heart of gold but so does a hard-boiled egg.
Interpretation
Actions speak louder than intentions, and true value is shown through behavior.
Maya Angelou emphasizes the importance of actions over intentions in how people perceive us. While one may have good intentions or a kind heart, it is ultimately the actions we take that define our character and how we are judged by others. The humorous comparison to a hard-boiled egg suggests that having a good heart is not enough if there are no accompanying actions to demonstrate it.
In practice
In a motivational speech about integrity and authenticity.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
If it doesn't feel right, don't do it. That is the lesson, and that lesson alone will save you a lot of grief.
Words will not fail when the matter is well considered.
Weβre all imperfect and we all have needs. The weak usually do not ask for help, so they stay weak. If we recognize that we are imperfect, we will ask for help and we will pray for the guidance necessary to bring positive results to whatever we are doing.
Nobody is ordinary if you know where to look.
Love your rage, not your cage.
It hurts not the tongue to give fair words.
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