What we want is to see the child in pursuit of knowledge, and not knowledge in pursuit of the child.
George Bernard ShawRead
If you cannot get rid of the family skeleton, you may as well make it dance.
Interpretation
Embrace your family's flaws and challenges instead of hiding from them.
This quote by George Bernard Shaw suggests that rather than attempting to erase or conceal difficult truths or issues within a familyβwhat he metaphorically refers to as the 'family skeleton'βone might as well accept them and find a way to cope with or even celebrate them. It highlights the idea that acknowledging imperfections can lead to a healthier relationship with one's family and oneself.
In practice
During a family reunion, you might use this quote to lighten the mood when discussing past family issues.
What we want is to see the child in pursuit of knowledge, and not knowledge in pursuit of the child.
Marriage is good enough for the lower classes: they have facilities for desertion that are denied to us.
Forgive him, for he believes that the customs of his tribe are the laws of nature!
Those who talk most about the blessings of marriage and the constancy of its vows are the very people who declare that if the chain were broken and the prisoners left free to choose, the whole social fabric would fly asunder. You cannot have the argument both ways. If the prisoner is happy, why lock him in? If he is not, why pretend that he is?
Treat a friend as a person who may someday become your enemy; an enemy as a person who may someday become your friend.
The happiness of credulity is a cheap and dangerous quality.
How many a father have I seen, A sober man, among his boys, Whose youth was full of foolish noise.
When you become a parent, you leave a lot of things behind and refocus, maybe on how simple life really is and what few things there really are to worry about. And everything else can go by the wayside.
Kids need a happy household. They need to be loved and supported in their dreams. And I don't think you can make your kids' dreams your own. They need you to support them in their dreams.
Compassion for our parents is the true sign of maturity.
In my early teens, I acquired a kind of representative status: went on behalf of the family to wakes and funerals and so on. And I would be counted on as an adult contributor when it came to farm work - the hay in the summertime, for example.
And above all, children need our unconditional love - whether they succeed or make mistakes; when life is easy and when life is tough.
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