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When sadness comes, just sit by the side and look at it and say, "I am the watcher, I am not sadness," and see the difference. Immediately you have cut the very root of sadness. It is no more nourished. It will die of starvation. We feed these emotions by being identified with them.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the importance of detaching from negative emotions to overcome them.
Rajneesh suggests that instead of being consumed by sadness, one should observe it from a distance, recognizing it as a temporary state rather than a defining part of oneself. By adopting the perspective of a 'watcher,' the individual can diminish the power of sadness, allowing it to fade away as it is no longer fed by identification or attachment.
Themes
SadnessObservationDetachmentEmotionsMindfulness
In practice
Example use cases
During a workshop on mental health, one could share this quote to illustrate the value of emotional detachment.
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