If you have a secret, and it's embarrassing to you, when you tell that story - you own it. It becomes yours, and no one can use it against you.
Interpretation
Sharing your embarrassing secrets empowers you by taking control of them.
This quote emphasizes the power of vulnerability and honesty. When you openly share a secret that embarrasses you, you transform that secret into a part of your narrative, thus diminishing its power over you. It reinforces the idea that owning your story allows you to reclaim your identity and shield yourself from potential judgment by others.
In practice
During a TED Talk about the power of vulnerability, one might use this quote to illustrate the importance of owning one's narrative.
A belief in feminism is a belief in personal freedom - the freedom to live a life free of fear of violence, to select a fulfilling career and be compensated fairly, to choose when to start a family, to marry whom you love. I want everyone, regardless of gender, to live a life free of restriction or fear, able to pursue their own personal brand of happiness and fulfillment.
Real success and accomplishment, at whatever it is you are passionate about, requires real work. Real sacrifice. Real disappointment. Real failure. And it requires the ability to scrape your sorry ass up off the floor, stumble to your feet, wipe the rivulets of watery drool from your face, and do it again, like an obstinate toddler running against the wall with his head in a bucket.
I think people sleepwalk through their lives, and for me, I wanted to embrace everything. And that meant the agonizing pain and the transcendence, and you can't have one without the other.
I've said this before, and I'm sure there are people who disagree, but I feel like one of the reasons there aren't a lot more women in stand-up - and there are many more now; it's not parity, but it's getting there - is that women are not socialized to look stupid or silly. They're socialized to be pretty and precious.
For someone to say that marriage is only about procreation is a joke. I didn't marry my husband to have children. I married my husband because I love my husband.
Nothing really worth having is easy to get. The hard-fought battles, the goals won with sacrifice, are the ones that matter.
My old man says when it's time to be counted, the important thing is to be man enough to stand up.
As long as gay people don't have their rights all across America, there's no reason for celebration.
Look for me in the whirlwind or the storm.
You see, in this world, there's two kinds of people, my friend - those with loaded guns, and those who dig. You dig.
There is a story which is not being told strongly enough of the Afghan employees of the UN inside the country who are saving hundreds of thousands of lives everyday by their bravery and nobody talks of them.
If one tries to navigate unknown waters one runs the risk of shipwreck
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