The generality of virtuous women are like hidden treasures, they are safe only because nobody has sought after them.
Francois De La RochefoucauldRead
We seldom find people ungrateful so long as it is thought we can serve them.
Interpretation
People are often grateful as long as they believe they can benefit from someone else's help.
This quote by Francois De La Rochefoucauld highlights the idea that gratitude is often contingent on the expectation of continued assistance. It suggests that individuals tend to appreciate those who support them only when they perceive that there is potential for future benefits, revealing a conditional nature of human relationships and gratitude.
In practice
In a speech about teamwork, one might say, 'Remember, we seldom find people ungrateful as long as it is thought we can serve them.'
The generality of virtuous women are like hidden treasures, they are safe only because nobody has sought after them.
Old men delight in giving good advice as a consolation for the fact that they can no longer set bad examples.
Some counterfeits reproduce so very well the truth that it would be a flaw of judgment not to be deceived by them.
Conceit causes more conversation than wit.
The defects and faults of the mind are like wounds in the body; after all imaginable care has been taken to heal them up, still there will be a scar left behind, and they are in continual danger of breaking the skin and bursting out again.
To understand matters rightly we should understand their details; and as that knowledge is almost infinite, our knowledge is always superficial and imperfect.
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I really wasn't heavy in high school. But no one feels right in their own skin, particularly in high school.
His courtesy was somewhat extravagant. He would write and thank people who wrote to thank him for wedding presents and when he encountered anyone as punctilious as himself the correspondence ended only with death.
The key to staying together is making sure you guys like each other and need each other.
There are few things sweeter in this world than the guileless, hotheaded, intemperate, open admiration of a junior. Even a woman in her blindest devotion does not fall into the gait of the man she adores, tilt her bonnet to the angle at which he wears his hat, or interlard her speech with his pet oaths.
Our rewards in life will always be in exact proportion to the amount of consideration we show toward others.
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