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My single young friends, we counsel you to channel your associations with the opposite sex into dating patterns that have the potential to mature into marriage, not hanging-out patterns that only have the prospect to mature into team sports like touch football. Marriage is not a group activity—at least not until the children come along in goodly numbers
Dallin H. Oaks
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Engage in dating with the intention of finding a life partner rather than casual interactions.

This quote highlights the importance of purposeful relationships, particularly among young singles. It emphasizes that dating should be viewed as a serious endeavor with the potential for marriage, rather than as a casual pastime, which is likened to playing team sports. The distinction made here encourages individuals to focus on meaningful connections that can lead to lasting commitments rather than fleeting encounters.

Themes

DatingMarriageRelationshipsCommitmentFriendship

In practice

Example use cases

During a relationship seminar, you could use this quote to advocate for serious dating.

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