Don't sweat the small stuff...and it's all small stuff.
Richard CarlsonRead
Learning to stop sweating the small stuff involves deciding what things to engage in and what things to ignore. From a certain perspective, life can be described as a series of mistakes, one right after another with a little space in between.
Interpretation
Focusing on the important aspects of life can help reduce stress and create a more fulfilling experience.
This quote emphasizes the importance of discerning which issues in life are significant and worth stressing over, and which are trivial. It suggests that life is characterized by mistakes, but how we choose to respond to these challenges can determine our overall happiness and peace of mind.
In practice
In a motivational speech about managing anxiety.
Don't sweat the small stuff...and it's all small stuff.
True happiness comes not when we get rid of all of our problems,but when we change our relationship to them, when we see our problems as a potential source of awakening, opportunities to practice, and to learn.
If, however, you take a moment to observe how you actually feel immediately after you criticise someone, you'll notice that you will feel a little deflated and ashamed, almost like you're the one who has been attacked. The reason this is true is that when we criticise, it's a statement to the world and to ourselves, "I have a need to be critical." This isn't something we are usually proud to admit.
Something wonderful begins to happen with the simple realization that life, like an automobile, is driven from the inside out, not the other way around. As you focus more on becoming more peaceful with where you are, rather than focusing on where you would rather be, you begin to find peace right now, in the present. Then, as you move around, try new things, and meet new people, you carry that sense of inner peace with you. It's absolutely true that, "Wherever you go, there you are.
It is easy to say something new, if all senses one will eschew. But hardly ever is found, that the new is also sound.
To be mindfully engaged is the most natural, creative state we can be in.
History is apt to judge harshly those who sacrifice tomorrow for today.
A good martial artist does not become tense, but ready. Not thinking, yet not dreaming. Ready for whatever may come. When the opponent expands, I contract; and when he contracts, I expand. And when there is an opportunity, "I" do not hit, "it" hits all by itself.
Much that we call evil is really good in disguises; and we should not quarrel rashly with adversities not yet understood, nor overlook the mercies often bound up in them.
And I've always said, 'If two people think the same thing about everything, one of them isn't necessary.' We need to be able to understand that if we're going to make real progress.
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